Girls Kissing Girls

 I found this .gif for Pride Month. Am unsure if it is appropriate. Your thoughts?

Happy Pride Month 2025

 My favorite photos from Montreal Pride a few years ago. 

 

 Happy Valentine's Day!

Photo removed by me. I hope those who wanted it downloaded a copy! 

Happy New Year! Into 2025...

I find myself drifting in melancholy this holiday season, that of the Winter Solstice, Saturnalia, Christmas, and Chanukah. I am home without family this year because most came on Thanksgiving. My young lover, Trouble, and a few “besties,” including Jeep Girl, come and go to my casita, but they have many activities with their families and friends outside of our circle. Thus, I’ve had quite a lot of time to myself, with ample quiet hours to think, muse, and meditate on life and love. I’m learning to put aside news and politics for a while, so my heart and mind are mostly at peace. Life is good, verdant.

My relationship with a young woman twenty years my junior is evolving, drifting, and growing into a deep friendship more than an ongoing romance. We knew it was inevitable, so we are content with the ebb and flow of our bond.

I do not have any “wild and crazy” sexual adventures to share right now. The latest that of the Iceland bartender was the most recent erotic encounter. I shot a few videos in the style of “I Feel Myself” and “Beautiful Agony” for Trouble. She likes those, and I enjoy making them. That was fun because it also ameliorated my exhibitionist itch.

I am journaling more and plan to invest more time in my production and screenwriting projects with the university. The travel company I work for on the side has not offered me any assignments for the new year yet.

My immediate goal for the new year is to find a path forward. I will find a way to trust myself and find ways to resist the destructive policies of the Trump administration where I can assert some influence.

I will discover ways to balance living, loving, and doing good in these troubled times.

Finally, I hope to find new, exciting ways to express myself as a liberated, bisexual, almost always horny, sometimes exhibitionist, and, I hope, humorous woman.

Happy New Year to all my friends! 

Peace and Love,

Sparks

Photo removed by me.

 

December 2024 Post - Coming Soon

 Here's a photo from five years ago to fill this space until I write my December post.

Jacking the Bartender

How I Watched the Debate

It was silly fun really -- thanking the handsome young (22) Icelander for opening the bar for Americans so we could watch the Harris-Trump debate at 1:00 AM.

 

Several travelers in our group, a few other Americans in the hotel, along with a few Canadian guests, begged the hotel to allow us to have a debate "watch party" in the hotel lounge. The desk manager was skeptical until the cute lad who tended bar agreed to open it up for us and find the debate on the bar big screen TV.

 

Once arranged, our "watch party" group agreed to make it a "pajama watch party." Why get dressed in the middle of the night, right? No one was surprised when we all showed up in flannel pajamas, nightgowns, and nightshirts. I had a little exhibitionist fun wearing a flannel "Star Wars" sleep tee with a pair of pretty pink panties. The bartender mixed up a batch of what he called "rum warmers," hot chocolate with rum, and a touch of Cognac. Yum! The drink made the debate ever so much more fun.

 

As I mentioned in the Facebook blurb on this, the young bartender absolutely refused any tips for opening the lounge. He said it was a privilege to share the event with Americans, so it was not surprising that he had no use for Trump.

 

I lingered as people left with the specific intention of doing something nice for the boy. At 22, he was close to the age of most my students and about half my age. It didn't matter. He was cute and fit and funny. I flirted with him shamelessly, but he didn't seem to mind. We sank into a sofa, talking first about the debate, then of America, Iceland, and how different our countries are. It wasn't difficult to notice he was quite aroused sitting so close to me. His athletic sweatpants revealed he was going "commando." His was anything but small.

 

Not one to be shy, I leaned into him and whispered softly, "I still want to thank you for this evening." I reached into his pants. My little hand was just enough for a good grasp on his cock. Stroking him, I spoke softly, gently sharing how he felt to me and how I longed for him to let loose and enjoy my stroking, teasing, and my hands exploring him here, there, and everywhere.

 

He relaxed and let me take control, except he wanted to touch my breasts, I think for just a tad of extra stimulus. I made him wait for me to bare the girls until he was close to climaxing. As I sensed him getting close, I took my "Star Wars" top off. That was enough to send him over the edge. I held his cock and aimed his cum to explode onto my boobs and tummy! And wow, did he. I've been cum on before, but this was an absolute flood of jizz. It felt so good and slick and hot all over me. I played with the pearl jam, rubbing it here and there, tasting it, and teasing.

 

It was late so the exertion exhausted us both. He took a few bar towels, wet them with hot water from the bar sink, and cleaned me up. I used one of the towels to clean him up.

 

I put my top back on and he tucked himself back into his pants.  With a sweet kiss, I scampered off to bed.

Getting Off on Video for Friends and Lovers

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

These are companion comments to an article I linked on Facebook today, "Take your nudes up a notch: how to make a hot masturbation video."

Here is what I try to do in my masturbation "selfie" videos.

1. Choose a setting that is attractive and comfortable. Of course your bed, sofa, chairs and such work. But you might have more fun if use an usual setting like a chaise by the pool or a cozy rug by a fireplace.

2. Light your scene as best you can with whatever you have. Your webcam lights can work well. Also, a backlight is great if you can do it. It will give your video depth. Darker lighting can be dramatic, but you want your lover to see you too.

3. If you are going to catch audio (and why not?) make sure your location is quiet. Turn off the A/C. Your iPhone can catch decent audio. I use a pro mike though so I can whisper if I want to.

4. Use a tripod with a phone holder like on a selfie stick. Frame your shot so you show your body and face, as well as between your legs however you move. Whatever you do, don't cut off your head! (I hate that). Your lover wants to see your face and boobs as well as your pussy.

5. Wear something fun to start. Nude is nice, but have some fun starting in an outfit that will make your lover smile.

6. Let the camera roll after you finish to catch your afterglow and your smile.

It should go without saying to be very careful about sharing your video. If you make a video, be absolutely certain you can trust who you share it with.

To get started, you can find selfie masturbation videos on Pornhub and the like. That's where I grabbed the stills at the beginning of this post.

Above all, enjoy! Even if you don't share your video, it can be fun just making it and watching it yourself.