These are companion comments to an article I linked on Facebook today, "Take your nudes up a notch: how to make a hot masturbation video."
Here is what I try to do in my masturbation "selfie" videos.
1. Choose a setting that is attractive and comfortable. Of course your bed, sofa, chairs and such work. But you might have more fun if use an usual setting like a chaise by the pool or a cozy rug by a fireplace.
2. Light your scene as best you can with whatever you have. Your webcam lights can work well. Also, a backlight is great if you can do it. It will give your video depth. Darker lighting can be dramatic, but you want your lover to see you too.
3. If you are going to catch audio (and why not?) make sure your location is quiet. Turn off the A/C. Your iPhone can catch decent audio. I use a pro mike though so I can whisper if I want to.
4. Use a tripod with a phone holder like on a selfie stick. Frame your shot so you show your body and face, as well as between your legs however you move. Whatever you do, don't cut off your head! (I hate that). Your lover wants to see your face and boobs as well as your pussy.
5. Wear something fun to start. Nude is nice, but have some fun starting in an outfit that will make your lover smile.
6. Let the camera roll after you finish to catch your afterglow and your smile.
It should go without saying to be very careful about sharing your video. If you make a video, be absolutely certain you can trust who you share it with.
To get started, you can find selfie masturbation videos on Pornhub and the like. That's where I grabbed the stills at the beginning of this post.
Above all, enjoy! Even if you don't share your video, it can be fun just making it and watching it yourself.
